Goodbyes and expectation: returning to reality

When my daughter visited our cabin in September, the goodbyes were especially difficult for me—the only consolation that we’d meet up the following week when my husband and I traveled for appointments and planned to spend two nights at her home. Not surprisingly, when the moment came to say goodbye the second time, it proved no less challenging. But it was also couched in expectation. While I appreciated the accommodations and cherished new memories made, I also anticipated a return to reality and #cabinlife on our forested property. No longer do I miss the valley and big city living—the traffic congestion and fast pace coupled with the wide-open spaces—scrub-dotted mountains looming in the background. While they still sport their own rugged beauty, I’ve simply swapped them out for my new happy place in Rim Country. As for the next trip, it’s my daughter’s turn. I just plan to hold on a little longer before letting go.

How easy is it for you to say goodbye?

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